Tuesday, December 14, 2021

But in reality it should not happen . Every life has its ups and down, its roses and thorns . No life is a saga of happiness or a pit of sorrow . The shares of sorrow or happiness might have ratio variation but it exists simultaneously .

The persons who are successful know the art of acceptance and converting their failures into opportunities – their shortcomings into strength .

This is an art which is to be slowly mastered and learnt . In many it is inborn while others practice it to perfection but all successful people accept even their sufferings and make it into a reality .

The more easily we accept failures and weaknesses more easily we will gather strength to fight back .

I have seen people brooding over lot of flimsy , irrelevant facts to an extent that it starts happening their day to day growth. If they find their family life tense they will suffer , their working place tense they will suffer . If they are not able to accept failures they will suffer and the end result is they cannot see the opportunity knocking at the door . They miss small openings thinking that they cannot make any substantial good out of it .

The earlier we realize that every life is different and is packed with different spices and flavors the better it is . Acceptance of your own self and your own life is the first step towards success . Don’t negate your existence for nature gets hurt with it . Nature to be read synonymous with god has send us for different purpose and goal.

How can we mix and match the goal when our birth , growth , experiences are all different . How can we imitate someone else life when we don’t know what he is suffering . So the basic mantra for happiness is to be ‘u’ . And one day we will find that very indigenous ‘I’ has proved and changed the world .

-Mamta Mehrotra