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Criticism

Criticism

No work is best and every creation and every task we perform has a scope of improvement .

Most of the time we are shy of performing because we are afraid to take in criticism from our fellow beings .

It is human nature to err and it is too human to criticize for many a times not appreciating someones work give us pleasure and state of superiority over others .

I have seen that people with unseen amount of short comings are very vocal of others handicaps. Those cricks go to extent about bragging about others failures and weaknesses forgetting that weakness arise from trying and trying something is a better trait than sitting idle . Those who are trying even with short comings have a chance of improving and growing. Those who are sitting idle will rust and deteriorate. Hence while as a performer in life we should never be afraid of failures, short comings, defeats ,and weaknesses.

These all could be improved over a span of time . Work begets work .Idle behavior leads to boredom. Fatigue, waste of time and energy.

In my earlier chapters i have emphasized about overconfidence than inferiority but still as a prudent person we should be aware of our weaknesses and shortcomings and should be open to criticism. We should be our own critics . because we can rise only when we are aware of our own follies . Hence before anyone points our mistakes we should say we know and we will improve.

We should believe the dictum that even in the beat of works there is ample scope of improvement .

Mamta Mehrotra

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Criticism

Saturday, October 23, 2021

Criticism

We all are afraid of criticism or negative comments from our near and dear ones . These comments tend to have a serious affect on our personality and style of functioning and many a times the impact is so devastating that we tend to break down and stop performing .The serious pertinent question occurring in my mind is that why in the first place we are bothered with the outer world and hear so many suggestions and remarks ?. Why in the first place we have given others so important a place in our lives that they have somehow taken command over our personality and potentiality .?
Recently I started taking music lessons and at this late stage in my life i heard few snide remarks from people around me . Some were of the view that why I started with the classes in the first place? Or i need to sing better or few good well wishers went to the extent of suggesting to quit .
Now i had to define my priorities that why i was talking the music lessons . I was not a born accomplished singer but I wanted to go for it for the sheer passion of acquiring the skill – a passion i had kept close to my heart .
I had no desire to convert it into a profession or to make money out of it .
Further i had no desire to acquire the voice or tone of established exceptional singers for the voice given to me by nature was my own asset which required training and practice . So i was definitely not going to relent to these so called critics and felt more determined to go ahead with the classes . Further these classes gave me good positive engagement and much desired happiness and accomplishment required . So the other persons were no one to decide in my favor .
If they wanted they could tolerate me or hence could leave me . But they can not take decisions on my behalf . I am doing nothing wrong so i was not duty bound to seek their advice .I felt sure with practice and consistency i am bound to improve .
Till then adieu to criticism and critics .
-Mamta Mehrotra
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